1. Cheat for emotional reasons
Research shows 48 percent of men said that emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason for having an affair. Many have claimed the affair is always related to sex. Only eight percent of men who say that sex becomes the main cause of dissatisfaction.
"The rest is more to the emotional. Just like women, men also want to be appreciated. He also wanted to understand that he always tries happy and fun couple. When that emotional satisfaction is not obtained from the couple, he looked for another woman who can fulfill the emptiness of his soul," said Neuman .
2. He feels guilty when cheating
As many as 66 percent of men feel guilty when you're having an affair. While 68 percent of men who cheated had never imagined before, and do not expect the affair to happen. So do not be mistaken for an affair she felt free. It may be that he even thought of you when you're making out with their mistresses. According to Neuman, the guilt alone is not enough to make him stop cheating. "Men are most good at sharing his feelings. They could hold a new deal with emotions and feelings in the future," said Neuman.
Neuman reminded, though he's promised to not having an affair, does not mean he will not be cheated forever. While this may not, but either tomorrow, after tomorrow or maybe next year he will begin to think about it.
3. Men cheating on affected friend
Some 77 percent of men who cheated have close friends who are also having an affair. Messages parents so that no one in the mix turned out to be true. According to research Neuman, hanging out with friends who are often cheated, make him think cheating is something normal. But, this argument does not necessarily make you prohibit the he befriended. You can just ask your understanding for not participating in events where a lot of opportunities affair. You and she need more often hanging out with friends who are committed to faithful in relationships and family.
4. Men met in the workplace WIL
As many as 40 percent of men met the other woman of your dreams (WIL) in the workplace. Women who become another ideal men usually like to praise, admire, and appreciate his achievements. Well, this is the importance of couples appreciate each other. You can find other women who admire the couple of how often he mentions a name of female than male colleagues. Especially if he mengingau name. What can be done? Discuss. Discuss the restrictions on what may and may not be done with office colleagues of the opposite sex. For example, with whom he was overtime, who accompanied him out of town service or anything else that could be agreed berasama partner.
5. Not all WIL more physically attractive
Only 12 percent of men who say that WIL is more physically attractive than their partner. Actually, the he did not think to cheating in order to get better sex with a woman who is more sexy. Men cheating to fill emotional emptiness. If he feels comfortable with another woman, then accompany sex.
"If the anxious spouse was having an affair, do not be too focused about it. Precisely build a better relationship with your partner. But do not rule out the sex. Because it is one of the ways men express a sense of love," suggested Neuman.
6. Men indirect sex with their mistresses
Only six percent of straight men who have sex with their mistresses. While 73 percent of men will take approximately a month. He will first find out about the woman and convince her feelings. So, before perselingkughan really happen, you still have time to prevent it.
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